I have lost the desire to pursue my wife sexually because we have different schedules and activities
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to have a relationship with my wife that includes intimacy physically.
DESIRED STORY
My wife and I have lives that requires us to help others. I have a process that strategically finds time to demonstrate to my wife that I am very attracted to her physically.
LESSON:
Without a process, I am triggered by chaos.
REVELATION:
I must build a process for making my wife a priority in my life.
if I am unable to truly accept the lies that I’m telling myself as lies, I will not be able to get out of this constantly triggered state of mind. I will not be able to feel my wife’s lives or show my wife the love she deserves and I’ll not be married for much longer
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to get past this shit. I want a badass relationship with my wife and best friend. I want to feel and show her love daily. I want my kids to see and also experience this love
DESIRED STORY
I will face my lies in the shelter. I will overcome the lies and end these negative cycles. I will be a better man and husband
LESSON:
I must face my lies
REVELATION:
I can overcome these lies and my life will reach the levels I see for myself in the next 12–18 months
My biggest obstacle is coming up with reasons or making excuses not to do something. It’ s a part of procrastinating but either way, I tend to come up with reasons why I shouldn’t do this or that today. So that has to stop. I’ll never make progress if I keep allowing excuses to happen.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to get stronger and more athletic. I want to look great. I want to be in the best shape of my life. I want to get rid of this belly fat and cellulite.
DESIRED STORY
Thanks to Warrior, I have learned to shut up the voice in my head that starts to make excuses and just do the work. Even a bit of effort is better than nothing. So as long as I put some progress into fitness every day, the compounding effect will take me to my results.
LESSON:
I’m glad I’m in this Warrior Shelter. I know it will give me the kick in the ass to not give up in my goals.
REVELATION:
Don’t fall off track. No more excuses. I’m keeping myself accountable.
That the work is too hard, that it’s too boring, that I’ll have to do it over and over and over again. That it takes way too long and WAY TOO mentally taxing to think in the way that is necessary
ME STORY:
Ed doesn’t do the work because he believes the work is too hard. He procrastinates and the business stays where it’s at and won’t grow.
OPPOSITE STORY:
The work is easy, it is interesting, and I only have to do it once. It doesn’t take very long and it is easy to bang out scripts or even bullet points on the things that matter to the men I help.
DESIRED STORY:
I want the work to be something that I look forward to and make happen daily. I want to see the results of my work and be proud as fuck of the fact that I’m able to do this. I want to see the stuff that I’m creating as helping lives and necessary. That it’s not simply a paycheck, that I’m affecting real lives. And I am. I’ve saved many lives of men. I’ve prevented suicide more times than I know.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to be free of the feeling of feeling like the work is too hard and that it takes too long and I don’t get enough results from it
CHOSEN STORY:
OPPOSITE STORY
LESSON:
Remember that the resistance is the way.
REVELATION:
You have to push through the resistance any way you can
I have started many strategies to improve several aspects of my live, business, body, balance and being, I start strong at the beginning and then when I see that i am making progress then I stop and sabotage myself thinking that I am ok now, I have made some improvements, then I am ok. My mediocre mindset kicks in and talks me into , we are ok now, we don’t need to keep going and then a lot of times, not only do I not continue to grow but I lose some of the progress I have made.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to implement WUW program, I want to stay focused and disciplined, I want to progress and grow daily on all four cores of my life. I want to reach the goals I set for myself in the next 12 moths. I now I can reach them.
DESIRED STORY
It is time to increase my standards, it is time to change my internal thermostat, it is time to do the daily work to get closer and closer to my goals.
LESSON:
I need to take advantage of these tools to start making progress and start growing, it would be a waste of resources, opportunities and possibilities not to do it, I am tired of not living to my full potential.
REVELATION:
I can see my goals to be reachable, never have I seen them so close and so clear as of right now. I am just getting started and I need to continue with this momentum.
I don’t want to work. I feel uninspired and lazy, reluctant to make phone calls, easily distractible by any random squirrel. I am not doing the work.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to be happy with myself. I want the good feelings that come with seeing the results of my work. I love the feeling at the end of a well executed day when I look back and say, damn, all I have to do is do that. And then my goal is guaranteed.
DESIRED STORY
I operate in powerful sprints. I may be down for short periods, even weeks at a time, but I always come through with new listings, contracts, and closings. I make $150-200K working fucking part-time, holy crap, I am actually one of the best in my field to be able to do that.
LESSON:
Reflect and stack often. The execution will come. I will do the work.
REVELATION:
I am in Warrior specifically because I lack consistency of execution. I know that by going through this process, particularly the stacking, that I will sent a new level in 2022.
ACTION :
Review my 2022 plan and Quick Action plan and take action on the next step this afternoon.
I don’t want to be a slave to money anymore and I know the best way to do that is to start my own business. I want to be in control of my cash flow and security vs leaving it in the hands of another employer that can let me go anytime. I have dreams, I have ideas…but it doesn’t seem like I have enough TIME! This is my #1 obstacle. I’ve got irons in the fire with different business opportunities but everyday it seems like I don’t have enough time. A “job”, housework, kids activities, etc. keep eating up my time and my business pursuits get the scraps…I think this is a reason why everything takes so long…I just don’t seem to have the ability to stick to a schedule and relative time slots right now.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to be an entrepreneur. I want to be free from depending on an employer and be in control of my business life. And as a result, I want to be FREE from being a slave to money. I want money to be a slave for me.
DESIRED STORY
I am disciplined enough to stick to a predetermined schedule. I would say no to certain things and protect my time that I have set aside for building my businesses. I will build my own business/brand and have a blast doing it. I will make great business decisions and make lots of money.
LESSON:
If I don’t schedule time for something, it doesn’t exist.
REVELATION:
I need to schedule things better to ensure I put the necessary time in to building my businesses. Time is in my control…I just need to learn how to say no to things that begin to impede my time on my businesses
ACTION :
Start small and build out my schedule for the week….and make sure that I stick to the time that I have allocated to my businesses
I have allowed (tolerated) distractions (people/situations) that ultimately end up wasting my time that should be used on more productive things. I need to utilize the stacks to work through these type things quicker. I need to be proactive and remove toxic people/situations from my life quickly.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to avoid toxic people/situations. I want to avoid chaos. I want to work through distractions quickly with ease and not get stuck in my head, twirling from being triggered. I want to get in the habit of stacking quickly and re-writing a better story to keep me moving forward from a place of peace.
DESIRED STORY
I quickly identify triggers, stack them and create a better story which in turn creates a much better outcome and saves me time
LESSON:
the importance of addressing things (stacking) right when they happen instead of waiting until later or using other methods.
REVELATION:
I feel lighter and in control. I also feel motivated now that the blockages have been removed.
I am telling myself that my weight and causing me bad health which is causing the other areas of my life to suffer.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to be healthy. I want to be fit. I want to be active. I want to look good in my clothes and feel good all the time.
DESIRED STORY
A more strategic story is, I am an athlete. I am actively in the gym 5-7 times per week. I eat healthy most of the time. My body is transforming as we speak. In 12-18 months I will be unrecognizable. I will be in the best shape of my life. Gout flares are just my bodies reminder to me that my eating is out of control.
LESSON:
I have to do the work that I know needs to be done. Make better choices on what to eat, and get back in the gym. No more excuses.
REVELATION:
It is time for me to stop making excuses and stop lying to myself. I know what I need to do to get my body right. Its time to do it.
ACTION :
Do 100 push ups today. Go to the gym tomorrow morning.
That I talk the talk but not walking the walk. If I took action I would not be writing about being angry, scared, upset or doubtful
ME STORY:
I am doing God’s work and making a great lifestyle while doing this. I am bringing people to God and he does the rest. I am successful and have balance in life with Being, body and business. I am a Warrior of God
OPPOSITE STORY:
I took the action needed to start my own business and never looked back and I am very happy, grateful, and blessed that I took the action needed to do God’s work
DESIRED STORY:
I am making 2 million or more year doing this work. I work 30 hours a week and remainder of time is spent with family and friends. I have an amazing relationship with God and my family. I am the healthiest and strongest I have ever been.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
To continue the process and take the small but giant action that WUW is providing me. This is working
CHOSEN STORY:
DESIRED STORY
LESSON:
Trust in God and he will lead you the right direction.
Everything is spiritual. I need to learn to see that again!
Original story:
That I can’t be successful in business and be a sincere follower of Jesus. I feel like I have to choose the ways of Jesus (death to self, giving time and energy to the church, accepting suffering and poverty and hardships as part of normal life) over worldly success (success in business, making a great wage, putting my time and effort into business and developing others instead of the church). Why do I believe that my work in business isn’t spiritual?? I just don’t see how business intersects with God’s agenda for the world – the renewal of all things.
Desired story:
That my work in business is deeply spiritual. That my work matters to God. That I can be a businessman who impacts my world for Christ. That my work in business can bring heaven to earth in a unique way. I may not see that clearly, but I trust God can guide me in that endeavor. I can be confident in the value of my daily decision to put my hand to business and be diligent.
What i want for me:
I want to be clear and convicted about my beliefs. I want to know that the work I’m doing matters to God – that I’m not just doing this for myself. I want to know that my desires are God given and not selfish. I want to know God is with me in my business endeavors. I want to know I’m not letting god down.
Revelation:
That I can love God and love business. God created business. God loves business.
Action:
I’m going to listen to Rob bell’s everything is spiritual tour and see how everything is spiritual in my day to day life.
The story I am telling myself is that it is better to be anonymous, to remain insignificant, because life is too dangerous otherwise.
ME STORY:
I may be protecting myself- but in protecting myself I am depriving my family and everyone else of what I could have to offer. In protecting myself I am robbing my family of a future.
OPPOSITE STORY:
It is safest to be in the public eye- why because we are in an attention economy. Even negative attention produces positive results.
DESIRED STORY:
That what is both safest and most profitable is for me to be my sincerest and most honest and aligned self at all times.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to end the double think and double life. I want alignment between my thoughts, words, and deeds, I want to be able to express myself and be appreciated and valued for who I am. At the moment, I am constantly in hiding and also constantly and actively denigrated for who I am.
CHOSEN STORY:
DESIRED STORY
LESSON:
Self first, others second. If I hide myself or put others first, I will always lose, and I will be unable to help those that I love because I have already been robbed of my power
REVELATION:
Self first others second is the only way to properly serve others.
I’m not telling anyone that I raised my voice towards my wife.
ME STORY:
The me version is I have seen first hand how this is affecting my wife and I and I must change. I have reached out to the group and committed to 7 angry stacks at least once a day.
OPPOSITE STORY:
I share this mega stack with the group. I share about this when I go live and I do the fucking stacks on my self and control my rage. Once I control my rage I will not raise my voice again.
DESIRED STORY:
I do the work in this stack app I share in the group how things are going and I build a better relationship than we have ever had! Where we just want to be together because we love spending time with each other.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to have a relationship that was like we felt when we first met. Full of love and excitement. I want to just spend time sitting with her and loving her and making love with her. And dancing with her. I really want to have an amazing relationship with my wife. How I’m the hell am I going to teach men how to have great relationships if I can’t have one of my own.
CHOSEN STORY:
DESIRED STORY
LESSON:
it’s all up to me to move to the next chapter in life. Without me nailing this first I have nothing !!!!
REVELATION:
My relationship with my wife is the most important area of my life I must master. Without fixing this I can’t move forward with her or my business !!!
I continue to find other things to occupy myself to avoid doing what I know needs to be done to be successful. It is not like the things I am doing are not important…but there is no structure or discipline to direct my flow of energy…it is very haphazard
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to be steady and consistent
I want my day to run smoothly
I want to feel a sense of accomplishment in as many areas as possible each day
DESIRED STORY
I am not so much procrastinating as tying up loose ends on my pre ious life so that I can sure up my foundations and be able to adequately schedule the time I need to Accomplish my objectives. I can start by at least scheduling the minor things in life more proficiently and get better at that habit.
LESSON:
Failure to Plan is Planning to Fail
REVELATION:
Scheduling my days is an important tool that I can make use of in order to accomplish my objectives on a day to day basis.
ACTION :
Take time today to write up a schedule incorporating the programs that I am Working and allow for Family Time and Me Time so That I am not overwhelmed
That I don’t have the time available that is required to put in the necessary work to make the money I need to pay off my bad debt. That if I take the time away from just daily survival that my recurring bills will fall further behind and utilities will get cut off again
Desired story:
I have plenty of time to put in the work necessary to be able to pay my bills on time and never worry about that again
What i want for me:
I want to have enough income to not worry about my bills being paid late.
Revelation:
If other people can prioritize their time so can I
I let a lot of things get in the way of my goals and I stay up too late because I have FOMO of what else is going on in the house and wanting to join the fun. And that causes me to not wake up at the time I want to wake up and ultimately my day is not as productive as I would like it to be
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to be able to put all these obstacles aside and stay focused but have fun to stay up late but whatever I do I need to wake up early that’s a priority and be effective in the morning to get my day on the right foot
DESIRED STORY
Need to be to bed by 9:45 no later this will allow me to wake up at 5 AM with seven hours of sleep
LESSON:
going to bed at 9:45 will help me avoid some of my biggest obstacles about waking up early
REVELATION:
945 is the time I need to wake up to wake sorry go to bed and wake up early and be efficient with my time and set a roadmap of my goals so I can achieve what I need to achieve
It’s holding me back from everything I want in life. Its holding me back from more connection in my marriage, from marketing my music which is actually my biggest dream… its directly holding me back from everything Emily and I want. I was raised with it and thus it creates very low self esteem and an extremely low self image of myself. Thats not who I am anymore.
Me story:
I’m holding me back from everything I want in life. I’m holding me back from more connection in my marriage, from marketing my music which is actually my biggest dream… I’m directly holding me back from everything Emily and I want. I was raised with me and thus I create very low self esteem and an extremely low self image of myself. That’s not who I am anymore.
Opposite story:
My body is propelling me to everything I want in life. It’s propelling me to connection to my marriage and in marketing my music. It creates high self esteem and an extremely high self image. That’s who I am now.
Desired story:
Every day I wake up and recognize that I am a warrior king. I then go through the core 4 and make sure I’m shielded everyday. I live by the code of stop fucking lying so for me that includes fuel and fitness especially. In my truest self I eat plant based. And I follow this Centr program for 6 weeks and I will NOT cave in and stop again. I will not lie to myself to get out of it. The code will hold me accountable to weaponizing my body every. Single. Fucking. Day. And the results will come naturally
What i want for me:
I want to be able to enjoy all areas of the core 4 and not have my body try and get in the way. I realize now its not holding me back, its just an obstacle. And I want to weaponize my body to where it’s my weapon and no longer my obstacle
Revelation:
stick to the code when it comes to this core 4. It keeps you accountable for what you said you want in life
Action:
to eat well again tomorrow and to workout again tomorrow all over again. Gonna continue the week in strength
Well done David,
That was a great ANGRY STACK!
I’m stoked we went through this process together.
Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:
TITLE:
My Biggest Obstacle – Sexless Marriage
DOMAIN:
BALANCE
ORIGINAL STORY:
I have lost the desire to pursue my wife sexually because we have different schedules and activities
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to have a relationship with my wife that includes intimacy physically.
DESIRED STORY
My wife and I have lives that requires us to help others. I have a process that strategically finds time to demonstrate to my wife that I am very attracted to her physically.
LESSON:
Without a process, I am triggered by chaos.
REVELATION:
I must build a process for making my wife a priority in my life.
Have a great rest of your day David!
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
Well done ,
That was a great ANGRY STACK!
I’m stoked we went through this process together.
Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:
TITLE:
It’s all her fault and nothing is wrong with me
DOMAIN:
BALANCE
ORIGINAL STORY:
if I am unable to truly accept the lies that I’m telling myself as lies, I will not be able to get out of this constantly triggered state of mind. I will not be able to feel my wife’s lives or show my wife the love she deserves and I’ll not be married for much longer
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to get past this shit. I want a badass relationship with my wife and best friend. I want to feel and show her love daily. I want my kids to see and also experience this love
DESIRED STORY
I will face my lies in the shelter. I will overcome the lies and end these negative cycles. I will be a better man and husband
LESSON:
I must face my lies
REVELATION:
I can overcome these lies and my life will reach the levels I see for myself in the next 12–18 months
Have a great rest of your day !
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
Well done ,
That was a great ANGRY STACK!
I’m stoked we went through this process together.
Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:
TITLE:
My Obstacle
DOMAIN:
BODY
ORIGINAL STORY:
My biggest obstacle is coming up with reasons or making excuses not to do something. It’ s a part of procrastinating but either way, I tend to come up with reasons why I shouldn’t do this or that today. So that has to stop. I’ll never make progress if I keep allowing excuses to happen.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to get stronger and more athletic. I want to look great. I want to be in the best shape of my life. I want to get rid of this belly fat and cellulite.
DESIRED STORY
Thanks to Warrior, I have learned to shut up the voice in my head that starts to make excuses and just do the work. Even a bit of effort is better than nothing. So as long as I put some progress into fitness every day, the compounding effect will take me to my results.
LESSON:
I’m glad I’m in this Warrior Shelter. I know it will give me the kick in the ass to not give up in my goals.
REVELATION:
Don’t fall off track. No more excuses. I’m keeping myself accountable.
Have a great rest of your day !
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
Well done Ed,
That was a great MEGA STACK!
I’m stoked we went through this process together.
Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:
TITLE:
#MyOBSTACLE
DATE:
Tuesday, November 23rd 2021
DOMAIN:
BUSINESS
ORIGINAL STORY:
That the work is too hard, that it’s too boring, that I’ll have to do it over and over and over again. That it takes way too long and WAY TOO mentally taxing to think in the way that is necessary
ME STORY:
Ed doesn’t do the work because he believes the work is too hard. He procrastinates and the business stays where it’s at and won’t grow.
OPPOSITE STORY:
The work is easy, it is interesting, and I only have to do it once. It doesn’t take very long and it is easy to bang out scripts or even bullet points on the things that matter to the men I help.
DESIRED STORY:
I want the work to be something that I look forward to and make happen daily. I want to see the results of my work and be proud as fuck of the fact that I’m able to do this. I want to see the stuff that I’m creating as helping lives and necessary. That it’s not simply a paycheck, that I’m affecting real lives. And I am. I’ve saved many lives of men. I’ve prevented suicide more times than I know.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to be free of the feeling of feeling like the work is too hard and that it takes too long and I don’t get enough results from it
CHOSEN STORY:
OPPOSITE STORY
LESSON:
Remember that the resistance is the way.
REVELATION:
You have to push through the resistance any way you can
ACTION :
write the brk script
Have a great rest of your day Ed!
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
#MyOBSTACLE
Well done ,
That was a great ANGRY STACK!
I’m stoked we went through this process together.
Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:
TITLE:
#MyOBSTACLE
DOMAIN:
BEING
ORIGINAL STORY:
I have started many strategies to improve several aspects of my live, business, body, balance and being, I start strong at the beginning and then when I see that i am making progress then I stop and sabotage myself thinking that I am ok now, I have made some improvements, then I am ok. My mediocre mindset kicks in and talks me into , we are ok now, we don’t need to keep going and then a lot of times, not only do I not continue to grow but I lose some of the progress I have made.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to implement WUW program, I want to stay focused and disciplined, I want to progress and grow daily on all four cores of my life. I want to reach the goals I set for myself in the next 12 moths. I now I can reach them.
DESIRED STORY
It is time to increase my standards, it is time to change my internal thermostat, it is time to do the daily work to get closer and closer to my goals.
LESSON:
I need to take advantage of these tools to start making progress and start growing, it would be a waste of resources, opportunities and possibilities not to do it, I am tired of not living to my full potential.
REVELATION:
I can see my goals to be reachable, never have I seen them so close and so clear as of right now. I am just getting started and I need to continue with this momentum.
ACTION :
LET’S GO !!!!
Have a great rest of your day !
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
#MyObstacle Stack
Well done Jeff,
That was a great ANGRY STACK!
I’m stoked we went through this process together.
Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:
TITLE:
My Obstacle
DOMAIN:
BUSINESS
ORIGINAL STORY:
I don’t want to work. I feel uninspired and lazy, reluctant to make phone calls, easily distractible by any random squirrel. I am not doing the work.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to be happy with myself. I want the good feelings that come with seeing the results of my work. I love the feeling at the end of a well executed day when I look back and say, damn, all I have to do is do that. And then my goal is guaranteed.
DESIRED STORY
I operate in powerful sprints. I may be down for short periods, even weeks at a time, but I always come through with new listings, contracts, and closings. I make $150-200K working fucking part-time, holy crap, I am actually one of the best in my field to be able to do that.
LESSON:
Reflect and stack often. The execution will come. I will do the work.
REVELATION:
I am in Warrior specifically because I lack consistency of execution. I know that by going through this process, particularly the stacking, that I will sent a new level in 2022.
ACTION :
Review my 2022 plan and Quick Action plan and take action on the next step this afternoon.
Have a great rest of your day Jeff!
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
#MyObstacle https://attackwiththestack.page.link/3xj7xy3UpTfqXavA6
#MyObstacle
Well done Kurtis,
That was a great ANGRY STACK!
I’m stoked we went through this process together.
Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:
TITLE:
My Obstacle
DOMAIN:
BUSINESS
ORIGINAL STORY:
I don’t want to be a slave to money anymore and I know the best way to do that is to start my own business. I want to be in control of my cash flow and security vs leaving it in the hands of another employer that can let me go anytime. I have dreams, I have ideas…but it doesn’t seem like I have enough TIME! This is my #1 obstacle. I’ve got irons in the fire with different business opportunities but everyday it seems like I don’t have enough time. A “job”, housework, kids activities, etc. keep eating up my time and my business pursuits get the scraps…I think this is a reason why everything takes so long…I just don’t seem to have the ability to stick to a schedule and relative time slots right now.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to be an entrepreneur. I want to be free from depending on an employer and be in control of my business life. And as a result, I want to be FREE from being a slave to money. I want money to be a slave for me.
DESIRED STORY
I am disciplined enough to stick to a predetermined schedule. I would say no to certain things and protect my time that I have set aside for building my businesses. I will build my own business/brand and have a blast doing it. I will make great business decisions and make lots of money.
LESSON:
If I don’t schedule time for something, it doesn’t exist.
REVELATION:
I need to schedule things better to ensure I put the necessary time in to building my businesses. Time is in my control…I just need to learn how to say no to things that begin to impede my time on my businesses
ACTION :
Start small and build out my schedule for the week….and make sure that I stick to the time that I have allocated to my businesses
Have a great rest of your day Kurtis!
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
#MyObstacle
Well done Natalya,
That was a great ANGRY STACK!
I’m stoked we went through this process together.
Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:
TITLE:
#MyObstacle (Distractions/Time Wasters)
DOMAIN:
BALANCE
ORIGINAL STORY:
I have allowed (tolerated) distractions (people/situations) that ultimately end up wasting my time that should be used on more productive things. I need to utilize the stacks to work through these type things quicker. I need to be proactive and remove toxic people/situations from my life quickly.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to avoid toxic people/situations. I want to avoid chaos. I want to work through distractions quickly with ease and not get stuck in my head, twirling from being triggered. I want to get in the habit of stacking quickly and re-writing a better story to keep me moving forward from a place of peace.
DESIRED STORY
I quickly identify triggers, stack them and create a better story which in turn creates a much better outcome and saves me time
LESSON:
the importance of addressing things (stacking) right when they happen instead of waiting until later or using other methods.
REVELATION:
I feel lighter and in control. I also feel motivated now that the blockages have been removed.
Have a great rest of your day Natalya!
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
Well done ,
That was a great ANGRY STACK!
I’m stoked we went through this process together.
Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:
TITLE:
#MyOBSTACLE
DOMAIN:
BODY
ORIGINAL STORY:
I am telling myself that my weight and causing me bad health which is causing the other areas of my life to suffer.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to be healthy. I want to be fit. I want to be active. I want to look good in my clothes and feel good all the time.
DESIRED STORY
A more strategic story is, I am an athlete. I am actively in the gym 5-7 times per week. I eat healthy most of the time. My body is transforming as we speak. In 12-18 months I will be unrecognizable. I will be in the best shape of my life. Gout flares are just my bodies reminder to me that my eating is out of control.
LESSON:
I have to do the work that I know needs to be done. Make better choices on what to eat, and get back in the gym. No more excuses.
REVELATION:
It is time for me to stop making excuses and stop lying to myself. I know what I need to do to get my body right. Its time to do it.
ACTION :
Do 100 push ups today. Go to the gym tomorrow morning.
Have a great rest of your day !
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
Well done ,
That was a great MEGA STACK!
I’m stoked we went through this process together.
Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:
TITLE:
My Obstacle
DATE:
Monday, January 10th 2022
DOMAIN:
BALANCE
ORIGINAL STORY:
That I talk the talk but not walking the walk. If I took action I would not be writing about being angry, scared, upset or doubtful
ME STORY:
I am doing God’s work and making a great lifestyle while doing this. I am bringing people to God and he does the rest. I am successful and have balance in life with Being, body and business. I am a Warrior of God
OPPOSITE STORY:
I took the action needed to start my own business and never looked back and I am very happy, grateful, and blessed that I took the action needed to do God’s work
DESIRED STORY:
I am making 2 million or more year doing this work. I work 30 hours a week and remainder of time is spent with family and friends. I have an amazing relationship with God and my family. I am the healthiest and strongest I have ever been.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
To continue the process and take the small but giant action that WUW is providing me. This is working
CHOSEN STORY:
DESIRED STORY
LESSON:
Trust in God and he will lead you the right direction.
REVELATION:
Trust in God plan
ACTION :
Share with WUW group
Have a great rest of your day !
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
Well done, that was a profitable ANGRY stack.
Here is the summary of your work.
Title:
#MyObstacle
Date:
Friday, January 21st 2022
Domain:
BEING
Life lesson:
Everything is spiritual. I need to learn to see that again!
Original story:
That I can’t be successful in business and be a sincere follower of Jesus. I feel like I have to choose the ways of Jesus (death to self, giving time and energy to the church, accepting suffering and poverty and hardships as part of normal life) over worldly success (success in business, making a great wage, putting my time and effort into business and developing others instead of the church). Why do I believe that my work in business isn’t spiritual?? I just don’t see how business intersects with God’s agenda for the world – the renewal of all things.
Desired story:
That my work in business is deeply spiritual. That my work matters to God. That I can be a businessman who impacts my world for Christ. That my work in business can bring heaven to earth in a unique way. I may not see that clearly, but I trust God can guide me in that endeavor. I can be confident in the value of my daily decision to put my hand to business and be diligent.
What i want for me:
I want to be clear and convicted about my beliefs. I want to know that the work I’m doing matters to God – that I’m not just doing this for myself. I want to know that my desires are God given and not selfish. I want to know God is with me in my business endeavors. I want to know I’m not letting god down.
Revelation:
That I can love God and love business. God created business. God loves business.
Action:
I’m going to listen to Rob bell’s everything is spiritual tour and see how everything is spiritual in my day to day life.
Have a great rest of your day Eric!
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
Well done CHS,
That was a great MEGA STACK!
I’m stoked we went through this process together.
Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:
TITLE:
My Obstacle/Shelter
DATE:
Sunday, February 27th 2022
DOMAIN:
BUSINESS
ORIGINAL STORY:
The story I am telling myself is that it is better to be anonymous, to remain insignificant, because life is too dangerous otherwise.
ME STORY:
I may be protecting myself- but in protecting myself I am depriving my family and everyone else of what I could have to offer. In protecting myself I am robbing my family of a future.
OPPOSITE STORY:
It is safest to be in the public eye- why because we are in an attention economy. Even negative attention produces positive results.
DESIRED STORY:
That what is both safest and most profitable is for me to be my sincerest and most honest and aligned self at all times.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to end the double think and double life. I want alignment between my thoughts, words, and deeds, I want to be able to express myself and be appreciated and valued for who I am. At the moment, I am constantly in hiding and also constantly and actively denigrated for who I am.
CHOSEN STORY:
DESIRED STORY
LESSON:
Self first, others second. If I hide myself or put others first, I will always lose, and I will be unable to help those that I love because I have already been robbed of my power
REVELATION:
Self first others second is the only way to properly serve others.
ACTION :
to simply follow this process all the way
Have a great rest of your day CHS!
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
Well done ,
That was a great MEGA STACK!
I’m stoked we went through this process together.
Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:
TITLE:
My obstacle
DATE:
Thursday, March 10th 2022
DOMAIN:
BALANCE
ORIGINAL STORY:
I’m not telling anyone that I raised my voice towards my wife.
ME STORY:
The me version is I have seen first hand how this is affecting my wife and I and I must change. I have reached out to the group and committed to 7 angry stacks at least once a day.
OPPOSITE STORY:
I share this mega stack with the group. I share about this when I go live and I do the fucking stacks on my self and control my rage. Once I control my rage I will not raise my voice again.
DESIRED STORY:
I do the work in this stack app I share in the group how things are going and I build a better relationship than we have ever had! Where we just want to be together because we love spending time with each other.
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to have a relationship that was like we felt when we first met. Full of love and excitement. I want to just spend time sitting with her and loving her and making love with her. And dancing with her. I really want to have an amazing relationship with my wife. How I’m the hell am I going to teach men how to have great relationships if I can’t have one of my own.
CHOSEN STORY:
DESIRED STORY
LESSON:
it’s all up to me to move to the next chapter in life. Without me nailing this first I have nothing !!!!
REVELATION:
My relationship with my wife is the most important area of my life I must master. Without fixing this I can’t move forward with her or my business !!!
ACTION :
txt my wife
Have a great rest of your day !
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
Well done Bob,
That was a great ANGRY STACK!
I’m stoked we went through this process together.
Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:
TITLE:
Procrastination Station
DOMAIN:
BUSINESS
ORIGINAL STORY:
I continue to find other things to occupy myself to avoid doing what I know needs to be done to be successful. It is not like the things I am doing are not important…but there is no structure or discipline to direct my flow of energy…it is very haphazard
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to be steady and consistent
I want my day to run smoothly
I want to feel a sense of accomplishment in as many areas as possible each day
DESIRED STORY
I am not so much procrastinating as tying up loose ends on my pre ious life so that I can sure up my foundations and be able to adequately schedule the time I need to Accomplish my objectives. I can start by at least scheduling the minor things in life more proficiently and get better at that habit.
LESSON:
Failure to Plan is Planning to Fail
REVELATION:
Scheduling my days is an important tool that I can make use of in order to accomplish my objectives on a day to day basis.
ACTION :
Take time today to write up a schedule incorporating the programs that I am Working and allow for Family Time and Me Time so That I am not overwhelmed
Have a great rest of your day Bob!
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
Well done, that was a profitable ANGRY stack.
Here is the summary of your work.
Title:
My Obstacle
Date:
Wednesday, March 23rd 2022
Domain:
BUSINESS
Life lesson:
Priorities matter
Original story:
That I don’t have the time available that is required to put in the necessary work to make the money I need to pay off my bad debt. That if I take the time away from just daily survival that my recurring bills will fall further behind and utilities will get cut off again
Desired story:
I have plenty of time to put in the work necessary to be able to pay my bills on time and never worry about that again
What i want for me:
I want to have enough income to not worry about my bills being paid late.
Revelation:
If other people can prioritize their time so can I
Action:
Set up a time schedule
Have a great rest of your day Shawn!
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
Well done Jim,
That was a great ANGRY STACK!
I’m stoked we went through this process together.
Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:
TITLE:
My biggest obstacles
DOMAIN:
BODY
ORIGINAL STORY:
I let a lot of things get in the way of my goals and I stay up too late because I have FOMO of what else is going on in the house and wanting to join the fun. And that causes me to not wake up at the time I want to wake up and ultimately my day is not as productive as I would like it to be
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to be able to put all these obstacles aside and stay focused but have fun to stay up late but whatever I do I need to wake up early that’s a priority and be effective in the morning to get my day on the right foot
DESIRED STORY
Need to be to bed by 9:45 no later this will allow me to wake up at 5 AM with seven hours of sleep
LESSON:
going to bed at 9:45 will help me avoid some of my biggest obstacles about waking up early
REVELATION:
945 is the time I need to wake up to wake sorry go to bed and wake up early and be efficient with my time and set a roadmap of my goals so I can achieve what I need to achieve
ACTION :
Change my alarm clock for going to bed at 9:45 PM
Have a great rest of your day Jim!
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
Well done Alicia,
That was a great MEGA STACK!
I’m stoked we went through this process together.
Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:
TITLE:
My Obstacle
DATE:
Sunday, April 3rd 2022
DOMAIN:
BALANCE
ORIGINAL STORY:
I’m bored
ME STORY:
I bore me?
OPPOSITE STORY:
I’m building
DESIRED STORY:
I’m enthusiastic
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
To be in love with Dan
CHOSEN STORY:
DESIRED STORY
LESSON:
I can be excited about building our marriage up.
REVELATION:
Building my marriage will help me build my business
Have a great rest of your day Alicia!
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
Well done, that was a profitable RAGE stack.
Here is the summary of your work.
Title:
#MyObstacle
Date:
Tuesday, May 3rd 2022
Domain:
BODY
Life lesson:
follow the code and the results will follow
Original story:
It’s holding me back from everything I want in life. Its holding me back from more connection in my marriage, from marketing my music which is actually my biggest dream… its directly holding me back from everything Emily and I want. I was raised with it and thus it creates very low self esteem and an extremely low self image of myself. Thats not who I am anymore.
Me story:
I’m holding me back from everything I want in life. I’m holding me back from more connection in my marriage, from marketing my music which is actually my biggest dream… I’m directly holding me back from everything Emily and I want. I was raised with me and thus I create very low self esteem and an extremely low self image of myself. That’s not who I am anymore.
Opposite story:
My body is propelling me to everything I want in life. It’s propelling me to connection to my marriage and in marketing my music. It creates high self esteem and an extremely high self image. That’s who I am now.
Desired story:
Every day I wake up and recognize that I am a warrior king. I then go through the core 4 and make sure I’m shielded everyday. I live by the code of stop fucking lying so for me that includes fuel and fitness especially. In my truest self I eat plant based. And I follow this Centr program for 6 weeks and I will NOT cave in and stop again. I will not lie to myself to get out of it. The code will hold me accountable to weaponizing my body every. Single. Fucking. Day. And the results will come naturally
What i want for me:
I want to be able to enjoy all areas of the core 4 and not have my body try and get in the way. I realize now its not holding me back, its just an obstacle. And I want to weaponize my body to where it’s my weapon and no longer my obstacle
Revelation:
stick to the code when it comes to this core 4. It keeps you accountable for what you said you want in life
Action:
to eat well again tomorrow and to workout again tomorrow all over again. Gonna continue the week in strength
Have a great rest of your day Jay!
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE
Well done Nadia,
That was a great MEGA STACK!
I’m stoked we went through this process together.
Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:
TITLE:
My obstacle
DATE:
Sunday, May 15th 2022
DOMAIN:
BUSINESS
ORIGINAL STORY:
Nadia is a failure
ME STORY:
I am a failure
OPPOSITE STORY:
Nadia is a successful person but she is little scared
DESIRED STORY:
Nadia is Envp in Arbonne
WHAT I WANT FOR ME:
I want to become Envp in Arbonne
CHOSEN STORY:
DESIRED STORY
LESSON:
That I can do anything I want and become successful in that and I proved it many times in the past as well
REVELATION:
that nadia is a strong person
Have a great rest of your day Nadia!
I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.
🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE