Onboarding Assignment #3: #MyOBSTACLE

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Dan Sarabia Hernandez July 17, 2021 at 9:41 pm

#MyOBSTACLE

Well done Dan,

That was a great ANGRY STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

Dan’s Schedule

DOMAIN:

BUSINESS

ORIGINAL STORY:

Dan understands what he needs to focus on, but what he doesn’t fucking do is set and discover a powerful schedule that he can fucking do every single day and stick to it!! For example, he went all in the WUWC and completed it successfully. He was committed, focused and determined to get it done everyday. The fucked up shit that continues to happen is that when he focuses on a task then that’s all he focuses on and forgets to also commit to his business. He has a lot that he must do and take care of for his business, but that mother fucker hasn’t been able to pull his ass away from other objectives to also include and take care of his own business. He knows he must get the work done, but he’s been unable (stories) to discover the right way to get his ass on a specific schedule every single fucking day! He wakes up and takes care of his Core – no problem there. But then for whatever fucked up lies, stories and bitch ass patterns he uses to self sabotaging himself he goes back and gets stuck there! It’s not that he’s lazy or doesn’t care, there’s just something thats blocking him and he hasn’t been able to kick the shit out of himself to overcome that bullshit! It’s fucking exhausting. But I know through this process with WUW Dan WILL fucking break through this story!

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

I want Dan to discover what will work best for him in setting his daily, weekly, and monthly schedules, deadlines, goals, and commit to them. I want him to discover the revelations he needs so he can break through what’s been holding him back. I want Dan to continue putting in the required work that will push him through to finish and launch his brand successfully. I want Dan to find people that will be aligned with his mission and message. I want Dan to put himself, his gifts and his vision out there so that this purposeful dream can become a reality. I want Dan to finish the website that’s 80% done. I want Dan to finish his original episodes he produced and edit them together. I want Dan to finish taking all the photography for his brand. I want Dan to finish taking care of the two designs for the women, and the two designs for his hats so he can purchase and complete what’s necessary. I want Dan to launch his website as soon as it’s done. I want Dan to get all the release forms signed so he can begin posting the episodes as soon as possible. I want Dan to begin creating the content he’s been desiring to put together for his business. I want Dan begin doing what he needs so he can get to where he can have the fulfillment side taken care of by the right people. I want Dan to stop fucking around, quit wasting time and get this business done!!

DESIRED STORY
Dan is making sure that every step he takes is creating the necessary outcome he desires. Dan is trusting the process with WUW so that he can continue receiving the knowledge and revelations he needs to become the most successful entrepreneur he can become. Dan is committed to surrender to God and understand that any and all challenges and obstacles are powerful tests that he must overcome.

LESSON:

You cannot change or eliminate the dark stories and patterns that have caused you so much pain and chaos within a few short days. This is a process. Committing to a consistent discipline to your CORE, and by Living by the Code this will give you the powerful support in your journey.

REVELATION:

Dan must continue to trust the process and commit to WUW. Dan has done so much already but there’s still so much more to go on his journey towards prosperity. He must stay focused and consistent with WUW. Dan without a doubt will succeed, he just needs to fucking do the work that is required!

ACTION :

Share with my group and continue the WUW process.

Have a great rest of your day Dan!

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE

Well done Florian,

That was a great ANGRY STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

My OBSTACLE

DOMAIN:

BEING

ORIGINAL STORY:

I overvalue short-term satisfaction over long-term success

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

i want to be able to say NO. I want to do overhours, I want to say no to junkfood. I want to say NO to fear.
I want to be the one that makes progress because he is never satisfied

DESIRED STORY
I know that short-term satisfaction does NOT show my success but keeps me from it. I will perform without wanting immediate satisfaction.

LESSON:

on the extra-mile I will outwork the others. Not in traffic on the standard-lane

REVELATION:

Standing on my heels rather than my toes is actually what keeps me from getting the results I want.
I am able and willing to put In work. But only until it hurts, then I stop and continue the other day. But that’s not where the glory lies. The glory lies in going the extra-mile!

Have a great rest of your day Florian!

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE

#MyOBSTACLE

Well done Eric,

That was a great MEGA STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

Fucking you Distractions

DATE:

Friday, August 20th 2021

DOMAIN:

BUSINESS

ORIGINAL STORY:

That this world is created to distract us. From our phones constantly popping shit up, to social media using their algorithms to constantly serve me up what it knows I can’t resist, to email constantly being the default place to go when I don’t know what to do in a moment. It’s all around me and it’s consistent and persistent.

ME STORY:

I’m too easily distracted. I allow myself to get drawn in by the push notifications on my phone. I open up the app to the social platforms making myself vulnerable to their technology. I’m constantly circling back to my email when I have a break in work like someone who keeps checking the fridge when they are hungry. I’m consistent and persistent in putting myself square in the crosshairs of distraction.

OPPOSITE STORY:

The world is created to give us focus and traction. It’s full of opportunity for focused and productive work.

DESIRED STORY:

I create a world for myself where distraction isn’t an option. Nothing can knock me off course. The phone pings, fuck you I’m busy… Social media? I’m not even opening that shit. Emails? They can wait. Other peoples agenda? I’m a man on a mission, and I’ll make time for what is important but ultimately I’m the ruler of my time and my schedule.

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

I want my mind to be a FORTRESS, protected from outside invaders. I want to be impenetrable from distractions. I want to have the ability to squeeze every ounce of life and productivity from my time. I want to be a laser beam of energy and focus.

CHOSEN STORY:

DESIRED STORY

LESSON:

Do the hard shit, create the systems, fuck the noise, and execute. Some times life is about subtraction.

REVELATION:

It’s may take something drastic, but I’m ultimately in control to get past this. Consistency over time will create the habit of being indistractable.

ACTION :

Decide and them implement how I manage the major distractions of social media, email, news, and people.

Have a great rest of your day Eric!

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE

Esther Gieling-Meijer September 8, 2021 at 7:35 am

Well done Esther,

That was a great MEGA STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

My biggest obstacle

DATE:

Wednesday, September 8th 2021

DOMAIN:

BEING

ORIGINAL STORY:

My fear is here, because i let myself small. It was a defense meganism in school years and in my home situation. I knew when to hide, when trouble where on my way. When i showed myself, i became an easy target for others to pick on. From my classmates when i was very young, from my parents who seem to be always in conflict with each other, and later my classmates and collegues. Feeling the fear, lets me hide so i didn’t where that target i did not want to be

ME STORY:

I hide, because i was feeling shit in the situation. I picked on myself, by not knowing what to do and hide

OPPOSITE STORY:

My fear is here, because i have the potention of being big and great. I did not knew how to hide, when others felt like shit. Feeling the fear, ables me to do something productive about the situation. For myself and others

DESIRED STORY:

My fear is here, to show me where my chances for greatness are. I know when others feel discomfort, and for myself. My fear, is not my fear anymore, but my friend. My friend in showing me the way to greatness amd abundance.

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

I want to listen to that fear, but not have the physical discomfort from it. I want to feel free to speak out and experience abundance and expension

CHOSEN STORY:

DESIRED STORY

LESSON:

Its shows me where growth is to achieve, and freedom

REVELATION:

Fear is there to show me a way, knowing now that im able to do things the other way than i did in the past. I can choose to take the different path, the path to greatness, clearity and inspiration

ACTION :

Let my business go, for today. Take a rest, sooth my soul with joy and go swimming with my son

Have a great rest of your day Esther!

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE

Well done Chris,

That was a great MEGA STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

MyOBSTACLE

DATE:

Wednesday, September 15th 2021

DOMAIN:

BEING

ORIGINAL STORY:

That I must manage to have my product ready for launch before I can Selly product. I’m constantly bringing up new ideas and services to improve my offer. This means I have several products to offer but nothing is marketready (in my opinion).

I lack in finishing one product and market it because I find it hard to make the content for my product what I have in mind. It doesn’t come out.

For now the biggest obstacle would be that I step out of the dark and expose myself as a new entrepreneur and don’t care what others think about it. Just focusing on doing my thing, what feels best.

ME STORY:

I am a staring entrepreneur things are exciting and a lot of new thing are coming up to me. We are also in the middle of a financial pit and time doesn’t seem to work in my favour for all the work what needs to be done.
Nevertheless, I do my best, am still motivated and focused on progressing consistently.
All these things are stressing me and stretching me. This is were I go beyond the comfortzone, this is were I will grow.

OPPOSITE STORY:

I already figured it out. Nothing new to me. I have plenty of time to do it all and nothing gets me out of the comfortzone to grow.

DESIRED STORY:

I have my challenges and it may be exciting, that’s okay. I’m facing new challenges and as I overcome these challenges I grow. Step by step I create a piece of business.

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

I want to be self confident. I want to go public with my business, not worrying about what others might think about it. I what to have the confidence to start selling products even I haven’t prepared them for 100%. I want to dare to take the leap in selling the products in advance.

CHOSEN STORY:

DESIRED STORY

LESSON:

That I still need to grow and that’s okay. My ego is trying to keep me in my safe zone. My growth is out of the comfortzone. So in order to grow I have to be self confident and step into the light.

REVELATION:

I thought I didn’t know what my biggest obstacle was. I just had to ask my intuition. Suddenly it was there. My intuition is always near me. I just have to listen better and trust it.

Have a great rest of your day Chris!

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE

Well done Pawel,

That was a great ANGRY STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

My OBSTACLE

DOMAIN:

BUSINESS

ORIGINAL STORY:

I’m going round and circles with my business idea, I know I have some expertise inside of the domain of BALANCE, cuz I overcame ultimately a ton of struggle in my own relationship and from the perspective of a man I could inspire other men to fix their own relationships.

There’s an issue though, despite knowing what to do… or rather feeling like knowing what to do, I’m still stuck with no consistency in actions.

I have help from my Inner Child Healing Coach, but at some point, he’s trying to get into business coaching instead of doing what he’s being paid for, which is ultimately reprogramming my belief systems and picking up on things that I could be missing out on.

Maybe I shall focus more on using the Stacking tools I have at my disposal here inside of Warrior’s Shelter, cuz I’m building my own scripture and over time I can literally print out this to have as a memory. With time I’ll pick the Warrior Box, but that’s not important now. I’m proud to associate myself with Warriors teachings.

I’ve just realized that I gave up control over my own destiny towards somebody else, ie. my Coach. Why? I found myself waiting and not taking action towards moving forward, because on the back of my mind is some sort of dialogue, like, why to even force myself and take responsibility if next week I’ll meet with my coach who’s going to guide me through the process.

Hmm, is that the same thing with the Warrior’s Shelter? I thought so, but ultimately it’s not about somebody else’s telling me what to do, but rather having an access to the tools and processes, so that ultimately I can take those decisions myself.

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

I want to gain clarity inside of my business so that I can take consistently take action.

DESIRED STORY
Instead of relying on somebody else telling me what to do, I can double down my actions on the Stacking tool so ultimately I’ll gain the clarity that I need to pull this off. I’m gaining the awareness necessary to pull this off and thanks to the previous coaching I have, sort of deep confidence that I can pull this off.

It’s interesting to see that stuff will come from the inside out, I don’t have to be confused anymore, cuz I have access to the tools and processes inside of the Warrior’s Shelter to ultimately become the King in my home.

Pawel, I trust you brother that you can make this happen, cuz ultimately it’s on you to believe in yourself and take fucking action. Love you. Let’s move on.

LESSON:

Answers are hidden within. Take the time to slow things down and extract those lessons instead of distracting yourself.

REVELATION:

Gained confidence in my own ability to pull this off.

I see that my body’s going to guide me.

When feeling triggered or bored or lacking of something, I can always slow things down and extract some lessons out of it.

Have a great rest of your day Pawel!

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE

Well done Charles,

That was a great MEGA STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

The War of Two Minds

DATE:

Thursday, September 16th 2021

DOMAIN:

BUSINESS

ORIGINAL STORY:

There we are in for the grind for at least a few more weeks or longer. We may lose a few thousand dollars a month on missed deals but we are good on the income as a family. As long as we don’t kill each other we are making progress. My mind is open to improving communication.

ME STORY:

After working on this stack I came to a realization that this grind is going to be perpetual. There will be no coasting and it should feel easy. Once the issue is solved and supported then we get to the next problem. Some money may be losses or more appropriately some monies may not be made based on the extent of the project that is being worked on. The fighting is a source of gems as in the example of the videos and how they will help train Jill and the loan officers using the system. Communication has been improving and it’s showing in the balance world of the relationship and that is an added bonus.

OPPOSITE STORY:

This doesn’t feel like the grind and has pleasurable feeling that is associated with growth and lasts indefinitely. As systems come online we start to make money that we weren’t making before. We are far from killing each other and actually getting quite close. My mind is open to reaching a level that is on par with intuition.

DESIRED STORY:

We enjoy the feeling of expansion and no that this pressure is self imposed because this is what we want. We monitor the growth of revenue as systems come online and the systems will help dictate how much profit is associated with the changes for better or worse. The fighting is going to happen and must be a trigger for a stack. There are diamonds and gold in these disagreements. The growth of the business integrates with the growth of our life.

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

I want to expand every day. I want to design solutions to the resistance that the world is giving us. I now know that I want to experience the fruit that we create from business. I feel more satisfied with business with my Queen by my side. It feels like the business is a child that we are raising and will be as beautiful and handsome as our son and our daughter. I want to see us grow as people and really grow in the professional aren. This is what I truly want!

CHOSEN STORY:

DESIRED STORY

LESSON:

That perception is truly everything and the advice I give is sound and even better when I follow it.

REVELATION:

Monitor to make sure I am putting myself in the best perspective to accomplish my goals and that the energy levels are optimized based on my psychology.

Have a great rest of your day Charles!

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE

Well done Curtis,

That was a great ANGRY STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

My BIGGEST OBSTACLE

DOMAIN:

BEING

ORIGINAL STORY:

I already know—I’ve known for some time—that my discipline and integrity with myself is going to be the biggest fucking obstacle for me to crush my intentions over the next 12 to 18 months. I know I must MAKE the time and stay RUTHLESSLY COMMITTED to doing exactly what the fuck I say I’m going to do! And, I also know that I’ve NEVER done so on the level required to follow through with even smaller “big intentions” of my past.

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

I want to evolve. I must evolve. I want to be the man that can crush my intentions and then some. I want to arrive at the place in my life where there is no doubt because I know I say what I mean and I mean what I say…to myself. I want to reach a point in my being where I am actually completing another angry or mega stack about how I set my fucking goals way too fucking low and am pissed at myself for not shooting higher and wasting time playing small.

DESIRED STORY
In the past, I have indeed been a man who lacks discipline and integrity with myself and hasn’t always done what I told myself I would do. But I am now ruthlessly committed to doing whatever it takes to evolve into a new man who has integrity. A man who has the support of my brothers that will hold me accountable. A man who will look back after crushing his goals and is pissed they were not bigger.

LESSON:

Set huge goals, evolve to be one who can, then achieve those goals…then repeat.

REVELATION:

Not only do I need to trust the process, but I also need to trust myself. If I can conceive it, and believe it, AND EVOLVE ME, then I can achieve it.

ACTION :

Complete the onboarding steps today and sign up for the Fact Map Mastermind immediately the first chance I get. I must stay the course and keep moving toward the next evolution, and the next, and the next.

Have a great rest of your day Curtis!

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE

Well done Philip,

That was a great MEGA STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

My Obstacle

DATE:

Thursday, September 30th 2021

DOMAIN:

BEING

ORIGINAL STORY:

I tell myself the story that I will never really succeed. Success isn’t for me, it’s for other people.

I will never “make it”.

I’m not good enough to actually achieve anything.

ME STORY:

I don’t execute. I make plans and don’t complete.

I will never amount to anything.

OPPOSITE STORY:

Success is for me. It is waiting for me to take it.

I will become whoever I propose myself to be.

I am more than capable of achieving anything I put myself to.

DESIRED STORY:

I execute daily on my plans.

Everyday I advance, even if it just a step at time.

Today I am more than I was yesterday.

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

I want to make good on my plans. I want to see the results of the work that I’m putting in.

I want to see the measurement of the increase.

I want to see the markers of success.

I want my queen to look at me like I am the most amazing man she has ever met.

CHOSEN STORY:

OPPOSITE STORY

LESSON:

I must do the fucking work.

REVELATION:

I must overcome the laziness.

ACTION :

Share this in the shelter.

Have a great rest of your day Philip!

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE

Well done Joel,

That was a great MEGA STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

My obstacle

DATE:

Thursday, October 7th 2021

DOMAIN:

BEING

ORIGINAL STORY:

That if I don’t eliminate the obstacles from my way I won’t never be able to get to where I want if I never destroy these obstacles and take smart decisions to work around them.

ME STORY:

I need to eliminate the lies I’m telling myself. I need eradicate this version of me that’s not serving me. If will create my alter ego to make a fast shift in me.

OPPOSITE STORY:

If I don’t eliminate my obstacles I will succeed and get what I want.

DESIRED STORY:

I eliminated every obstacle that was in my way and achieved my main goal that was making 10k per month on my aff business and 10k on my family business. I hired great people for the family people and I’m free and earning from there too. My mind is the same as a kings mind and I feel powerful.

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

I want to make 10k/month in my affiliate business and 10k per month in the family business.

I want my mind to quit lying about what I really want.

I want my mind to eliminate those lies I’ve been a slave to.

CHOSEN STORY:

ORIGINAL STORY

LESSON:

That I’m repeating the same complain over and over again and that I have done nothing.

REVELATION:

I need to be someone different to who I am today. I need to eliminate my obstacles from my mind and from my life to be someone that is more ambitious, that risks more, that is willing to do what is required and go beyond my limits.

ACTION :

Work on the most easy obstacle to get rid of it. And then on the next one and so on.

Have a great rest of your day Joel!

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE

Well done Derek,

That was a great MEGA STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

Tossed to and fro

DATE:

Saturday, October 9th 2021

DOMAIN:

BEING

ORIGINAL STORY:

That I am unclear and unsure of my direction…see above. pretty much covered it.

ME STORY:

Derek is struggling to find clarity in what he FOR SURE wants in the CORE 4 areas and greater goals in his life.

OPPOSITE STORY:

I am clear and sure in the direction I am going in my life.

DESIRED STORY:

I am crystal clear on the direction and certain on my path.

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

An absolute, in the present, clarity!!! Even if it changes a day from now, I want to live ONE FUCKING day where I am SOLD on what I am doing in each of my CORE 4 and the greater GAME I am playing. Where I question nothing that I am doing. I am in perfect flow. I may not hit every task but I know that the energy I am putting into each minute of the day is by design because its EXACTLY what I want and should be doing…cuz I put in the time and figured shit out. Most of all, I am relaxed and enjoying the ride…the journey. I am not so damn anal and technical. Slowing shit down by over thinking. I am sharp. Exact. Quick and succinct. I delgate and build. I manage and lead with certainty. I am the strongest man in the room. (I didn’t say the loudest!)

CHOSEN STORY:

DESIRED STORY

LESSON:

That I can go much, much deeper and articulate better than I thought.

REVELATION:

How pissed I am at myself yet how confident I am that we can solve this shit, together, inside myself!!!

Have a great rest of your day Derek!

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥

THE VOICE

Well done Jim,

That was a great MEGA STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

My Obstacles

DATE:

Sunday, October 10th 2021

DOMAIN:

BEING

ORIGINAL STORY:

I can be my own worse enemy and not hold myself accountable because of previous accomplishments, well it’s a clean slate daily and that does not work with warrior. I must be disciplined and accountable. No excuses. It has to be a priority.

ME STORY:

i can be great weekly or monthly and still not accomplish my goals, there needs to be daily steps. I can not be the wall in my success.

OPPOSITE STORY:

I am not giving myself enough credit and there is always a grey area and good reasons that will get in the way of getting results.

DESIRED STORY:

I need to think of accountability and self- discipline hourly, plan things out and leave time to overcome obstacles daily. Sure, there may be a day that is a mess and is completely out of control, but I still should find a way to move forward or it’s my own fault.

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

I want to be self-disciplined and accountable daily.

CHOSEN STORY:

DESIRED STORY

LESSON:

Not getting results for a good reason, still does not equal results. Plan, prepare, be accountable and disciplined and you will have time to respond and overcome obstacles.

REVELATION:

Daily steps can happen with focus that we all have and if you run into an obstacle, stack it, learn from it and you are killing two birds with one stone.

Have a great rest of your day Jim!

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE

Well done Gary,

That was a great ANGRY STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

My Biggest Obstacle

DOMAIN:

BALANCE

ORIGINAL STORY:

My biggest obstacle to achieving my intentions in BBBB is fear. Fear if rejection, fear of upsetting others, fear of failure.

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

I want to achieve my intentions.

DESIRED STORY
Fear is normal when you’re pressing the envelope, when you are stretching the box of what’s been normal in your life. So fear of change is normal, but it also is a sign if future growth because you’re about to stretch yourself and enlarge the box of comfort and normalcy and what you thought possible.

LESSON:

Don’t fear fear of change. Push through it to grow.

REVELATION:

Fear of change is normal. Push through it to grow.

Have a great rest of your day Gary!

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE

Well done Derek,

That was a great ANGRY STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

#MyObstacle

DOMAIN:

BODY

ORIGINAL STORY:

I have been over extending myself and prioritizing my business and family at the expense of my mental, emotional and physical health. I have not been honest with what I need to thrive and the consequence of that is I have been on a downward slide of energy that I can bring to my family and business.

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

I want to feel like it is ok to prioritize my activities like climbing, running, mountain biking and meditation and have health goals that aren’t there to just to keep me from falling apart, but are there to bring energy, excitement, connection with others and performance to my life.

DESIRED STORY
That pursuing my passions and ‘play’ will bring me the extra energy I need to give to my family, friends and business.

LESSON:

My life is not just here to serve others, I also have to serve myself and pursue my passions in my own life.

REVELATION:

The insight that a life without ‘playing’ the activities I love liking climbing, running and biking is like living a life without key nutrients like vitamin C or D, or without vegetables… it’s not going to go well.

ACTION :

Work on a training plan for climbing!

Have a great rest of your day Derek!

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE

#MyOBSTACLE
Well done Adolfo,

That was a great ANGRY STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

Tied up Wolf

DOMAIN:

BUSINESS

ORIGINAL STORY:

that there are jobs that I’m not good at and that guy cannot learn to do quick enough to provide the results that I need that is bullshit if I don’t remove the barriers to my ability to communicate clearly and from a purposeful passionate honorable heart aligned with intelligent action none of my dreams will come true and I will watch my spirit leave.

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

To deliver on the promises I made myself 20 years ago.

DESIRED STORY
Seek council not opinion, don’t start the day until it’s finished, seek to understand before seeking to be understood. I am not in my own way, I CAN sell, people know and trust me.

LESSON:

That doubting myself and begging for approval has kept me small and not trusted. I must create my holy land and claim it’s sovereignty.

REVELATION:

That I must slow down to be able to see and focus.

ACTION :

Get on every challenge as a gift that will lapse. My dreams are like Cinderella’s carriage, they’ll be a fucking 🎃 by midnight!

Have a great rest of your day Adolfo!

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE

#MyObstacleStack

Well done ,

That was a great ANGRY STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

My husband’s addiction

DOMAIN:

BALANCE

ORIGINAL STORY:

I found out on July 24 that my husband has been cheating on me our whole marriage. The woman he is with right now is number 5. All of these affairs happened pretty much back to back. He hasn’t been monogamous with me since our son was born. Which is crazy because we have a great sex life and the marriage that everyone envies. I never once felt unloved or unwanted. Everyone tells me he has a sex addiction and I believe them. He doesn’t think he has a problem. We are still in the house together and he wants sex from me all the time. He is incredibly broken right now and is feeling immense pain, guilt and shame. I don’t want to get divorced but I am afraid he won’t get the help he needs to heal.

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

I want him to get real with what he’s done and step up in our marriage and fight for it. I am so sick of hurting.

DESIRED STORY
My husband has been in denial for 3 months. He just started to deal with his feelings. He is not rational right now at all. He is not himself and is super fucked up. I can’t take the things he does/says personally right now.

LESSON:

I have to be patient and let things work themselves out on the timeline they are naturally on

REVELATION:

I am trying to rush for results too fast to avoid pain

Have a great rest of your day !

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE

courageous share Anya, and POWERFUL dedication to your marriage & family! Stay strong sister!

Thank you for saying that. It’s really hard. Just trying to embrace the suck haha

Well done Thomas, That was a great ANGRY STACK! I’m stoked we went through this process together. Here’s a summary of today’s Stack: TITLE: My obstacle DOMAIN: BEING ORIGINAL STORY: The biggest obstacle I face is the lie that I told myself about having too much to do and not enough time. WHAT I WANT FOR ME: I want to be more disciplined so that I can find power. DESIRED STORY I have all the time that I need. I have the same amount of time as men who are married with children and a thriving business making 10 times what I making. I have to choose expansion rather than comfort. I have to choose discipline rather than sedation. LESSON: I believe the lie that I don’t have time because I’m not correctly managing the time that I have and I’m choosing to sedate rather than expanding. REVELATION: The only way to win is to find the time. This requires expansion. The only alternative is sedation and staying stuck. ACTION : DTFW Have a great rest of your day Thomas! I’ll check in with you again tomorrow. 🔥🔥🔥 THE VOICE

Well done Chris,

That was a great MEGA STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

Is my biggest obstacle

DATE:

Sunday, October 31st 2021

DOMAIN:

BALANCE

ORIGINAL STORY:

But I don’t know if there’s anything I can do to win her back I don’t know if I should actively be trying to win her back

ME STORY:

I have tried and I am trying I am studying I have studied women and men and dating and marriage I’ve taken classes I’ve read books I’ve watched videos I have applied everything I’ve learned but it does not seem that anything is working

OPPOSITE STORY:

That it is completely clear what I need to do to win her back to Woo her back to turn her on and when I do those things she falls back in love with me she wants to come back she gets turned on and she wants to jump my bones

DESIRED STORY:

That I actually know without question how to win her back when her back I am winning her back and she is on her way back

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

Is to be back 100% with my best friend my wife

CHOSEN STORY:

DESIRED STORY

LESSON:

That I love my wife more than I have ever loved her

REVELATION:

That I am the man that is what God-made me I must rise to the occasion is Asian sometimes that means taking the hits doing the next right thing anyway is anyway loving unconditionally and just playing being the man

Have a great rest of your day Chris!

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE

Well done Tom,

That was a great MEGA STACK!

I’m stoked we went through this process together.

Here’s a summary of today’s Stack:

TITLE:

My biggest Obstacle – Fuck you tomorrow

DATE:

Saturday, November 6th 2021

DOMAIN:

BEING

ORIGINAL STORY:

I’m a lazy coward who hopes charm will save him.

ME STORY:

I’m a lazy coward who hopes charm will save him.

OPPOSITE STORY:

I am courageous and hard working and charm simply adds to my effectiveness.

DESIRED STORY:

I am courageous and hardworking and reliably put in the planning time to ensure that the work I do moves me in the desired direction.

WHAT I WANT FOR ME:

I want to be clear on what I want and what it will take to achieve/accomplish. I want to be someone who has a clear plan and executes every day.

CHOSEN STORY:

DESIRED STORY

LESSON:

If I’m not doing the work, my vision is clouded. Then the work to focus on is getting clear.

REVELATION:

If I don’t have a clear plan, there’s really nothing else to do but get clear and plan. Effective execution is only possible with a clear plan.

ACTION :

Call Brent and create a nutrition and exercise plan.

Have a great rest of your day Tom!

I’ll check in with you again tomorrow.

🔥🔥🔥
THE VOICE

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